Embracing Authenticity -
This is becoming a very important subject not only personally, but in business as well. There’s been a demand for transparency that keeps growing…
Yet, I’m realizing that it’s more complicated than you might think.
The need for authenticity from others is actually a cry for authenticity within us.
The outer world is always reflecting what is going on within us.
When we are choosing to experience a world that is kind, accepting, and tolerant, then if we have not been kind, accepting or tolerant of ourselves, we will experience it externally.
Why? Because you cannot experience a world where you are not experiencing the same standards within yourself – it’s impossible.
So, as people show up and behave in an inauthentic way that irritates you, you are the one with the problem, not them.
They are only letting you know that you need to resolve a belief within yourself that is not aligned with the world you say you...
Are you asking yourself this question – “when will I finally get what I’ve always wanted?”
You’re not alone in asking this question. Let’s take a look at what’s really going on and change it by taking advantage of what you don’t want.
These past few years, we’ve been experiencing or witnessing greater degrees of negativity that seems to continually surface. Oftentimes, it makes our dreams seem further away, but the opposite is true.
All this turmoil is actually very good news. Let me explain…
The reason this negativity is surfacing, both collectively and individually, is because we are at the end of a very long cycle and ready to move into new realties. These new realities are the ones we’ve been dreaming of and yearning for. However, we must let go of the old to experience the new.
These new realities, also known as parallel realities, or timelines have been created by our Soul and our...
Everyone wants to experience happiness! This is one of the first responses I hear from my clients. The problem is, happiness isn’t something outside of you, it’s inside.
True happiness begins and ends with you. It must start inside.
When you were young, happiness was innate because you were still connected to your authenticity.
You hadn’t experienced the traumas and negative experiences your later years brought.
Yet, when you were a young child, you experienced happiness outside of you, because you were connected to it from within.
Your unresolved negative life experiences begin to suppress these most precious parts of you that are connected to happiness, self-expression, vibrancy, openness, and much more.
This happens because your needs of safety, protection, acceptance, or love were not met, your mind suppressed not only the negative experiences, but also you.
Now, I see happiness...
I just finished a session with a client, and I want to share with you a common thread that many of my clients have – that deep down they feel like a misfit, not fully accepted, or a burden to others.
For most, the root cause of this begins early in life and becomes a limiting decision, with unresolved negative emotions, thoughts, and belief that blocks their authentic connection with others. They unconsciously disconnect, so they either wouldn’t be a burden to others, or to protect themselves. This happens unconsciously.
The first event typically happens at an early age and becomes buried because you weren’t old enough to handle it at that time.
This is when you experience a great deal of pain because you believed that you didn’t get the unconditional acceptance you needed at that time. This makes you feel as though you are unacceptable, unworthy, or an outcast.
At such a young age, you can’t process the negative emotions, or thoughts, so your...
Too often, we find ourselves cycling over and over again in the same…stuff. We didn’t come here to stay stuck. We came here to find a way to pull ourselves out of our stuck places. But what many don’t realize is that there is a HUGE reward when we change our limiting cycles that keep us stuck…we find our true identity that was buried beneath the fear, anger, sadness, and shame our passed traumas created.
If you’re struggling in some way, personally or professionally, you deserve to stop the battles so you can fully enjoy every precious moment your life offers.
Within your continual struggles is the real you that didn’t feel safe enough to reveal the real genius of who you really are.
Your negative experiences change you, especially when you’re young. What happens is that the parts of you that were hurt (emotionally, mentally, physically, or spiritually) become dormant, as you then take on another persona that...
There are many people who are confused when they hear the term “transform your life.” I’d like to help clear up some misunderstandings creating undue anxiety. Actually, until recently, the holistic fields knew the mechanics on the spiritual level, but now science is providing more pieces, giving us clarity, relief, and credibility. Now, we have the missing language and links to address how change takes place on the physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual levels.
This is giving us more techniques to provide faster healing and transformation on deeper levels. For instance, if you’ve been trying to achieve the dreams that have been in your heart, but it just hasn’t happened, there is a wound within you preventing your dreams from becoming a reality.
Science now shows us 90% of the results we experience in our lives come from our unconscious mind, not our conscious choices.
Your conscious mind is the goal...
I've worked with leaders who think they're a good leader but have minimal results, or growth. Most are actually shutting down ideas from the people around them. This usually happens when they’ve disconnected from the original intention of what or whom they are leading in many cases.
They often become stubborn and rigid, or they might be doing things because they’re feeling like their employees, or even their kids don't care anymore. It’s usually because they’re disconnected from their own fulfillment, and it’s being mirrored back to them.
When a leader is no longer experiencing fulfilled within their heart, those who follow or aspire can also experience the same.
If you are no longer feeling fulfilled, happy, or challenging yourself to grow in positive and meaningful ways, life has less meaning, and your business and life loses its meaning and drive.
Everyone’s the Leader of their own Life!
Where are you leading yourself towards? How are...
I just read this fascinating article about dandelions that got me to realize how most of us have been led to believe that we like dandelions. Bare with me…
In our not-so-distant past, the dandelion was revered for its highly effective medicinal properties. Every part of the flower has beneficial qualities. It’s been used for a variety of health conditions, as well as a healthy food loaded with vitamin A.
I also learned that until the 1800’s people used to pull sections of their grass to make room for dandelions! Now, we’ll spend tons of money to get rid of them!
Pull Those Weeds!
My point is, we often feel discarded and not seen for the amazing people we really are. Just like the dandelion, the people around us don’t realize our amazing qualities, because they can’t see their own. What one person disregards within themselves, they will also disregard within others. When we feel the rejection, we then reject our innate gifts, talents and...
If you’re upset that you haven’t fulfilled all your dreams or goals – such as deep connections with your loved ones, improved health, or increased wealth, please stop it. You have punished yourself enough and held your goals at arms reach long enough. Instead, let’s bring you closer to the inspiration you deserve.
The reason you haven’t reached your desires yet is because of the critical way you treat yourself. The way you may be belittling your attempts, or anger towards yourself about the resistance and unknown fears you can’t seem to break through.
What you need and probably haven’t gotten enough of in your younger years is encouragement and inspiration. Kids need to know that they matter, and they’re valued. When they don’t receive adequate amounts, they turn on themselves, blaming themselves for the disappointment they saw in their parents or caregiver’s eyes.
We now know how important it is to be mindful of the...
Are you feeling triggered more than usual? Experiencing deep resistance surfacing within you? Are you frustrated because no matter what you do, you just can’t move forward in the way you know you could and should?
Well, there’s a reason for that. It may not look like it now, but you are being given a tremendous opportunity to finally step into the life you dreamt of, but first, you must resolve your roadblocks. This is why you’re being triggered, feeling frustrated, disappointed, and scared, because you can’t heal something until you know it exists.
What has been surfacing for you is on the unconscious level. This is why you can’t seem to get hold of what’s blocking you. However, something is happening to help you resolve it and finally move forward.
First, I’d like to explain something that may help you understand the bigger picture and why your healing is so important.
The Music is...