If you’re upset that you haven’t fulfilled all your dreams or goals – such as deep connections with your loved ones, improved health, or increased wealth, please stop it. You have punished yourself enough and held your goals at arms reach long enough. Instead, let’s bring you closer to the inspiration you deserve.
The reason you haven’t reached your desires yet is because of the critical way you treat yourself. The way you may be belittling your attempts, or anger towards yourself about the resistance and unknown fears you can’t seem to break through.
What you need and probably haven’t gotten enough of in your younger years is encouragement and inspiration. Kids need to know that they matter, and they’re valued. When they don’t receive adequate amounts, they turn on themselves, blaming themselves for the disappointment they saw in their parents or caregiver’s eyes.
We now know how important it is to be mindful of the...
Are you feeling triggered more than usual? Experiencing deep resistance surfacing within you? Are you frustrated because no matter what you do, you just can’t move forward in the way you know you could and should?
Well, there’s a reason for that. It may not look like it now, but you are being given a tremendous opportunity to finally step into the life you dreamt of, but first, you must resolve your roadblocks. This is why you’re being triggered, feeling frustrated, disappointed, and scared, because you can’t heal something until you know it exists.
What has been surfacing for you is on the unconscious level. This is why you can’t seem to get hold of what’s blocking you. However, something is happening to help you resolve it and finally move forward.
First, I’d like to explain something that may help you understand the bigger picture and why your healing is so important.
The Music is...
Finally! The overall Universal energies are moving forward. Maybe not as quickly as you’d like, but forward none the less. One of the important things to understand, is that you need to respect the movement and process of the journey you are moving through. Whether that process is a career shift, relationship changes, or a personal crisis, it’s important to honor, resolve, and release the past, then open yourself for the new paths that will guide you forward.
I say this, because as I have witnessed many clients preparing for big changes in their lives. The bigger the change, the scarier it could be to aspects of oneself that still wear battle scares. Changes can bring up issues and fears such as imposter syndrome, insecurities, vulnerability issues, guilt about leaving someone behind, just to name a few.
It can be confusing, because you may also feel excited about the changes that are coming or have already arrived. Even if you don’t know what’s coming, you...
Relationships! Our life is one big relationship! We are literally in relationship to everything! Our jobs, career, business, our friends, family, environment, our communities…. We are always in relationship with something or someone – it is the nature of our lives.
Ideally, we hope for wonderful exchanges within these relationships, but that doesn’t always happen, for the very reason, and the core piece of what is the driving force of what I’d like to talk to you about today...
This video is from a Facebook live on 2-10-23
Happy New Year!
Wow! What a ride 2022 was! I know many experienced similar things, such as an unrevealing of the past and repositioning for the future in mysterious ways. Mysterious because we are being prepared for expanded, never experienced realities. Kind of scary and unnerving because we are bumping up against many internal issues that are reflected in our outer world. However, the more aligned you are with your Soul, the better you will feel. The awakening and need for a more conscious reality is moving us back into our Center.
Turning of the Tide
At the beginning of every year is a time when we are changing cycles, which means we are releasing elements of the past so we can move into our new cycle with more clarity.
The end of 2022 and the first few weeks of this year has been extra difficult for some as we have been pulled back to reexamine, resolve and release the past. This “unraveling” has many layers!
This is a time to be patient with yourself and...
For real and expansive change to happen in your life, you need to put “doing” in second place. I know, it’s hard to grasp, because you’ve been conditioned to go, go, go, and do, do, do, and not question some of your ingrained actions.
Don’t get me wrong, you have to “do,” but most of you are taking action from an unconscious position that may not give you the results you truly desire.
The problem with just “doing,” something out of pure habit is that it keeps you circling within an old limiting set of beliefs that are ego based and accepted by the mind. As many of you who have followed me know, the ego self only operates from what it’s learned – through the experiences of your past. This applies to both business and personal situations.
You end up with the same results. So, in business you work harder, but again you get the same results. It’s the repeating ego cycle that severely limits your growth....
Great leadership requires vulnerability – the willingness to break through the status quo and expectations to move boldly into new territory. This new territory is our future, and it must be taken through an authentic, soul-centered position to help our communities, clients, students, and families rise into their greatest potential. The way of our future is together, valued, and united.
The topic of vulnerability came to the forefront of my mind today because a shaman who has invited me to a personal sweat lodge ceremony next week asked what my thoughts or feelings were about this sacred rite. I told him, vulnerability. At first, he assumed I was fearful of the state of vulnerability, because most people are afraid. But I corrected him, by explaining my belief from my own experience.
I told him that to be vulnerable is to be in a position of strength, not weakness, when we are aligned with our Soul. When we are in alignment with our Soul, or our Soul-Centered Purpose, we are...
In commemoration of Halloween, it’s a good time to reflect on or ask yourself, “Am I pretending to be someone I’m not?” If you have a mask for your employee’s, clients, suppliers, community, loved ones, even yourself, become aware of it.
Authenticity is pushing everyone towards asking these questions. According to Forbes, between 66 - 91% of customers would change products to a purpose driven company offering a similar product. This is huge! Your clients and customers are looking for assistance from companies who are REAL and truly care. Keep in mind, the heart of any business lies within its owner, and leadership.
Awareness is the first step in taking responsibility for your outcomes, by admitting your involvement. This first step opens the door for positive change, within yourself, your family, and your business.
I’ve got a secret for you….. beneath your mask is an amazing individual with a great deal to share with the world. When you step...
Doesn’t that sound amazing? Live life fulfilled. The sad thing is most people don’t.
I have seen countless individuals who have tremendous financial wealth, a thriving business, beautiful homes, boats, cars, everything that they believed would bring them happiness, yet deep connection with loved ones, fulfillment and joy is still elusive for them. If anything, they feel frustrated, lonely, misunderstood, and have strained relationships with those they love.
Don’t get me wrong, many who have risen to the top of their industry have figured it out, but not as many as you might think.
Money is a wonderful tool to help you achieve and receive many things, but it does not provide real happiness or fulfillment – you do.
Quite often, business owners and executives sacrifice their wellbeing, and relationships believing that they are doing it for their loved ones, to leave a legacy behind or whatever justification they are using. This is when they build their own trap...
One of the most important things I teach my clients is to differentiate between whether their thoughts and beliefs are truly their own or not.
This is key when we consider whether we are aligned with our true Soul-Centered Purpose.
We have been inundated with others’ beliefs, opinions, and thoughts from the moment we were born. Actually, it begins prior to our birth. Our ancestors’ beliefs are hardwired into our DNA. Beliefs and the behaviors they initiate, no matter their origin remain until they are changed.
How do we know whether our thoughts and beliefs are truly from our authentic self or not? We must change a fundamental behavior and bring our energy, focus and attention within the self.
Let me explain.
The thoughts and beliefs that are from an external source, such as society, family, friends, etc. may not be what your heart knows as your authentic truth. Often there is an internal discomfort or conflict around a thought or belief that you may have desensitized...