For real and expansive change to happen in your life, you need to put “doing” in second place. I know, it’s hard to grasp, because you’ve been conditioned to go, go, go, and do, do, do, and not question some of your ingrained actions.
Don’t get me wrong, you have to “do,” but most of you are taking action from an unconscious position that may not give you the results you truly desire.
The problem with just “doing,” something out of pure habit is that it keeps you circling within an old limiting set of beliefs that are ego based and accepted by the mind. As many of you who have followed me know, the ego self only operates from what it’s learned – through the experiences of your past. This applies to both business and personal situations.
You end up with the same results. So, in business you work harder, but again you get the same results. It’s the repeating ego cycle that severely limits your growth....
Doesn’t that sound amazing? Live life fulfilled. The sad thing is most people don’t.
I have seen countless individuals who have tremendous financial wealth, a thriving business, beautiful homes, boats, cars, everything that they believed would bring them happiness, yet deep connection with loved ones, fulfillment and joy is still elusive for them. If anything, they feel frustrated, lonely, misunderstood, and have strained relationships with those they love.
Don’t get me wrong, many who have risen to the top of their industry have figured it out, but not as many as you might think.
Money is a wonderful tool to help you achieve and receive many things, but it does not provide real happiness or fulfillment – you do.
Quite often, business owners and executives sacrifice their wellbeing, and relationships believing that they are doing it for their loved ones, to leave a legacy behind or whatever justification they are using. This is when they build their own trap...