I just finished a session with a client, and I want to share with you a common thread that many of my clients have – that deep down they feel like a misfit, not fully accepted, or a burden to others.

For most, the root cause of this begins early in life and becomes a limiting decision, with unresolved negative emotions, thoughts, and belief that blocks their authentic connection with others. They unconsciously disconnect, so they either wouldn’t be a burden to others, or to protect themselves. This happens unconsciously.

The first event typically happens at an early age and becomes buried because you weren’t old enough to handle it at that time.

This is when you experience a great deal of pain because you believed that you didn’t get the unconditional acceptance you needed at that time. This makes you feel as though you are unacceptable, unworthy, or an outcast.

At such a young age, you can’t process the negative emotions, or thoughts, so your...