I just finished a session with a client, and I want to share with you a common thread that many of my clients have – that deep down they feel like a misfit, not fully accepted, or a burden to others.
For most, the root cause of this begins early in life and becomes a limiting decision, with unresolved negative emotions, thoughts, and belief that blocks their authentic connection with others. They unconsciously disconnect, so they either wouldn’t be a burden to others, or to protect themselves. This happens unconsciously.
The first event typically happens at an early age and becomes buried because you weren’t old enough to handle it at that time.
This is when you experience a great deal of pain because you believed that you didn’t get the unconditional acceptance you needed at that time. This makes you feel as though you are unacceptable, unworthy, or an outcast.
At such a young age, you can’t process the negative emotions, or thoughts, so your unconscious mind represses them, to protect you. This disconnection leads to difficulties in relationships, lessens your ability to attain and maintain clients, have quicker growth in your business, or achieve the financial goals you really want.
This was buried deep in my client, so he was surprised when it popped up, but he was relieved because he knew that was it. He didn’t recognize it consciously, because it had been part of his life for so long that he didn’t realize why he wasn’t hitting his financial goals, didn’t have close relationships with his friends, and disconnection in his marriage.
Now, he feels brand new, fully connected, accepted, and feels the abundance increase within. He couldn’t wait to share his deep love and what he learned with his wife.
If this is you, or something is derailing you from the personal, or professional expansion you truly want, I can help.