If you’re upset that you haven’t fulfilled all your dreams or goals – such as deep connections with your loved ones, improved health, or increased wealth, please stop it. You have punished yourself enough and held your goals at arms reach long enough. Instead, let’s bring you closer to the inspiration you deserve.
The reason you haven’t reached your desires yet is because of the critical way you treat yourself. The way you may be belittling your attempts, or anger towards yourself about the resistance and unknown fears you can’t seem to break through.
What you need and probably haven’t gotten enough of in your younger years is encouragement and inspiration. Kids need to know that they matter, and they’re valued. When they don’t receive adequate amounts, they turn on themselves, blaming themselves for the disappointment they saw in their parents or caregiver’s eyes.
We now know how important it is to be mindful of the way we respond to children, because it sets them either toward or away from their potential. Negative reactions from adults toward children creates deep negating beliefs about their worth, value and budding talents that is carried into adulthood, until death in most cases.
Don’t be a statistic. Don’t continue your cycle of self-loathing. Instead, look at yourself through the eyes of your Soul. This is how God sees you. Your perfection is all that God sees. The entire Universe marvels at the trials you have overcome, and the challenges you’ve encountered and endured. You are highly respected and deeply valued by God, and all aspects of Creation. It’s time to see yourself in this same Light.
Your negative and painful experiences are only a shadow of who you really are. When you stand in a brightly lit room, there are no shadows – nothing lurking, nothing is hidden.
You see, the things you are ashamed of and hide about yourself are likely your most valuable and powerful parts of who you are. All these amazing parts of you just needed to be recognized, accepted, and loved. It’s all you’ve ever wanted, isn’t it?
If you would like to learn more about how you can bring yourself fully out of the shadows, heal the traumas that made you hide the fullness of your heart, and know your Soul’s divine truth and purpose, message me. I can help you climb out of your self-imposed traps so you can experience the amazing life you deserve.
Carolyn M. Greenleaf